20 Things I learned in My 20’s
Ah, your 20s - a time of freedom, independence, and self-discovery.. try your best to embrace the suck… literally everything feels like the end of the world but your 20’s are about making mistakes and learning! Here are 20 of the best things I learned in my 20s:
Your mental health matters: GO TO THERAPY! Even if you think you’re not messed up. You can find an amazing therapist that works with your health insurance on BetterHelp.com
Failure is not the end of the world: I used to be so afraid of failing that I would avoid taking risks altogether. But now I know that failure is a natural part of growth and learning.
It's okay to say "no": It took me a while to realize that saying "no" to things that don't serve me is not selfish but rather an act of self-care.
Invest in yourself: Whether it's taking courses, traveling, get in the habit of going to the gym
Don't compare yourself to others: Everyone's journey is different, so comparing yourself to others is a waste of energy.
Learn to let go of toxic people: Surround yourself with people who uplift and support you, and don't be afraid to let go of toxic relationships.
Travel as much as you can: Traveling broadens your horizons and teaches you so much about yourself and the world.
Don't be afraid to ask for help: Asking for help is not a sign of weakness but rather a sign of strength.
Your job does not define you: Your job is just one aspect of your life - don't let it define your worth or identity.
Don't take yourself too seriously: Life is too short not to laugh and have fun.
Learn to manage your finances: Budgeting and saving may not be fun, but they are essential for your financial well-being.
Be kind to yourself: Treat yourself with the same kindness and compassion that you would offer to a friend.
Embrace change: Change can be scary, but it can also lead to new opportunities and growth.
Don't be afraid to stand up for yourself: Set boundaries and stand up for what you believe in.
Develop a hobby or passion: Pursuing a hobby or passion can bring joy and fulfillment to your life.
Learn to cook: Cooking for yourself can save you money and impress your friends.
You don't need to have everything figured out: Life is a journey, and it's okay not to have all the answers.
Your gut instinct is usually right: Trust your intuition - it's usually spot on.
Take care of your body: Exercise regularly, eat well, and get enough sleep - your body will thank you.
Don't be afraid to love deeply: Love is a beautiful thing, and it's worth taking the risk.
Remember to embrace the journey and enjoy the ride!
